Monday, September 3, 2018

I've got this

If you didn't see Dave's condition you would think I was making things up.  He spent five days at the nursing rehab sleeping.  I was so angry to see him still in his night clothes at 1:00 pm.  The aides and nurses said he refused to get dressed and was combative. OMG.  I angrily said, let's get him up NOW...I was more annoyed at the lack of help.   Long story later, I managed to get him to therapy where they somehow got him to stand and walk a bit.   It was a step, excuse the pun.  The next day I had a planning meeting.  Funny how Dave was up , dressed and in a wheelchair ready to go.  I helped therapy to force Dave to stand and walk.  He walked a bit further, still hunched over.

Six days later, Dave is doing very well.  It is like a brain button was pushed, maybe by getting him dressed first thing in the morning, but he is now trying to walk and doing better. Instead of crying each day, I am hopeful.  The church sermon for Sunday was about giving your troubles to God and let Him handle it.  He is saying to you, "I've got this."

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