Purpose in life! Who knew this was an important part of feeling better , especially during retirement? When my kids were young, my life evolved around them. Between boy scouts, wrestling and skateboarding, Dave and I were kept running. We did a lot of boating in those days too. I worked which also took up a lot of my time. After the children grew up and many years of working, it was wonderful to retire but a little scary too. I signed up for everything. Volunteered for everything. Over the years, it became difficult to care for Dave and continue my many activities. So caretaking became my new purpose. I resigned from my many activities.
Another purpose was needed. Being a caretaker is so difficult. Almost the same as motherhood, you start to loose your own identity. So I ask myself, "Why am I so motivated on some days and feeling blue and sluggish on others?" More to follow.
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